How Can I Simplify My Search for a Partner?

The average 32-year-old has already worked for nine companies and is looking for the tenth, claims Barry Schwartz in The Paradox of Choice: Why More is Less. In his best-selling book, the Western world is described as a place that provides its people with an overload of choice, and in turn promotes indecisiveness. We have a world of options and a multitude of ‘newness’ that demands our daily attention. Inevitably, this abundance of choice filters into our relationships.

There are new prospects at our fingertips on hundreds of dating sites that bombard us with ads, and sometimes, we get caught up in it all. Social networking sites can be a constant reminder of our past relationships as well as what could be our future too.

Alas, we can’t blame technology for all of our problems. Schwartz believes that we are a generation of ‘maximizers’: people who have a habit of comparing themselves to others, a tendency towards regret, and possess a constant fear of failure. Sounds great, huh? It’s been drilled into us for years – way before we had ever heard the name Zuckerberg or browsed our first dating site.

At Bowes-Lyon Partnership, we’re here to help you narrow the field just enough so that feeling overwhelmed is not part of the dating process. We'll to introduce you to suitable partners who fit the criteria of what you’re looking for – and never do we expect you to weed through profile after profile after a long day of work. With us, the dating process will hassle-free, and we will do the searching for you! Dating should be fun and enjoyable, and with Bowes-Lyon Partnership it is just that!"